Can women REALLY just keep it physical? Ego and False Bravado fool us into thinking that we can handle being a Good Enough For The Sheets Chick. We try to fool ourselves into thinking that we don't want more than an occasional meeting of the bodies. We try to fool ourselves into thinking that being taking out and treated like a lady isn't all that important. We try to fool ourselves into thinking that commitment isn’t significant. But if you’re getting your hips spread by said person, a commitment should absolutely be important! Why allow someone to indulge in your deliciousness and take of your spirit who isn't emphatic about making you their one and only? Why give someone a pass to indulge in YOUR deliciousness while indulging in "Honey Over There" and "Honey Over There's" deliciousness as well? How belittling! Beautiful women deserve so much more than to be belittled! Where have our standards ran off too? And when in the hell will they be coming back?
After we finish taking simple advice from Ego and False Bravado something eventually happens................Heart and True Emotion stop by to pay a visit--a take your shoes off, put your feet up, would you like something to eat/drink, you can sleep in the guest room during your stay.......... visit! Heart and Emotion shoot it straight! They speak effectively, forcing you to listen. They speak in a variety of ways: whispers, late night tossing and turning, tears. Heart and Emotion are trying to tell you that not loving and respecting your temple (body), dishing out free dibs for a temporary thrill, and not setting high enough standards for yourself is some bull! Steve Harvey told us that men respect standards. They may not like or appreciate standards because setting standards means……. the joy ride is over and it’s time to put some petro back in that tank and hand the keys over! Setting standards means…………. no more FREE room and board: Time to turn off the Play Station (or whatever new technology that’s replaced it), get a job, and help make rent homeboy! So of course he won't like the new standard setting you but he'll have no choice but to respect you! If setting higher standards for yourself--for your body--has him in a tizzy and looking for the nearest exit then he just showed you his @ss. Boy Bye!
Anybody can "lay down" but a woman who knows her worth will have the courage to "standard up".
Beautiful women…………….……..finding their way back.
