"Keep what is worth keeping and with a breath of kindness blow the rest away."
We seldomly “blow the rest away” and especially with a breath of kindness. Instead, we—and when I say we, I’m referring to any and everyone who has been hurt by love—opt to hold on to past hurts, pressing the replay button so ‘Our Story Of Hurt’ can play over and over and over again in our minds. We allow our past hurts to become our identity; to define us; to cripple us. But………… when I think deeply about it I realize..... I don’t want the actions of someone who suffers from M.A.R( Mind Ain't Right) to define me! Who falls in the M.A.R. category? Anybody who doesn’t have the good sense to treat you; respect you; adore you; and appreciate you like the beautiful woman you were born being (accepting mistreatment makes you a M.A.R. sufferer as well). Yes, your past or present boo may have treated you in a manner that was crap; but that doesn’t make you crap! You may have felt like you were being dragged through slop by the way he treated or tried to treat you; but that doesn’t make you slop! He neglected to put you on a pedestal but that doesn’t mean you’re not pedestal worthy! How others have treated you in the past does not define you. Now how you treat yourself…………….that’s a different story.
Every time your mind takes you back to a past hurt or disappointment press the STOP button; better yet—how about the eject button? Let’s start fresh with a new movie, void of characters of suffer from that Mind Ain’t Right disease.
Beautiful women………………………………….finding their way back!
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